Don't get discouraged, Don Tommasino. Girls are fundamentally confused, just know that usually a guy ends up in the friend zone because hes worked hard to be an altogether decent human being...so let her poor judgement validate what you always say about yourself...you're awesome. Anyway, they say names predetermine your future job...Nikki is tied with Destiny and Ivy as the quintessential stripper name. Of course, I myself will refrain from dispensing any personal advice on choosing women...that would be like Michael Jackson saying "I can recommend you a really great plastic surgeon..." However, I've given it some thought and if parties are not working out for you, I think a good place to meet women is the gynocologist. Its just a thought.